Ruthless Wanting To Win

Well, because people who don't succeed and survive long enough to pass on their genes make very poor ancestors . In The Continuum Concept Jean Liedloff describes how the babies of the Yequana Indians, who are 'in-arms' constantly from birth until they can crawl, are happy and alert. And you can …

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Careful And Wonderful

Because as she says that single word, I feel small and stupid that, as ever, the problem boils down to shame. In an hour, a day, a week, a month, a year, they may be at a different place and will act differently. Or perhaps it is the thrush that …

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I Saw Nothing But Brush

Your toughest obstacle may not be what others earn, but what you yourself have earned in the past. First, you're not really living in the present moment, and second, you're making yourself more stressed, anxious or depressed if your thoughts are unhelpful. I am clearing Dad's house and sifting through …

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Of Not Seeing My Friends

The fact that science has yet to uncover all its secrets could lead some people to suspect some sort of diabolical scheme; If you couple faith with attainable goals, you will have the confidence to thrive. Have your peri bottle in the bathroom, and as you pee, immediately spritz water …

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Elaborate And Rehearse

One of the many simple needs we served by drinking was a desire to space out. Eventually, all their energy may be poured into trying to cope with the person's illness. Unless action is included in our spiritual path we run the danger of becoming hypocritical, like pundits, able to …

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Is It Necessary?

The US has by far the majority of incidents, but it causes us to stop and reflect on why this growing phenomenon is proliferating. While he was out, the widow washed herself and lined her eyes with kohl [cosmetic powder]. In heavily built-up cities, such as New York, the surrounding …

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When The Sun Begins To Shine

But going to therapy isn't an excuse to not start dating. Each time they call, you cannot fall asleep after the call. I often enjoy this time with people because they're brimming with hope and motivation to do the work required (and willing to complete the homework I assign! I …

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Abandon Yourself

Instead of admitting they're wrong, they'll use other tools to manipulate the situation and change the truth until it fits their narrative. Often people are at their most receptive when they are able to spend a great deal of time in silence. Once that was removed, his world literally fell …

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The Summer Of 2011

These tight muscles can then lead to your shoulder not moving properly. Recognizing this limitation opens us up to the possibility of relying on one another to help fill in the parts of the picture that we can't see and always being open to new perspectives that we might have …

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Stop Comparing, Start Appreciating

Your lip liner should be either the exact color of your lips or one or two shades lighter so you'll never get caught with a dark line around your lips. Now look at each dream or goal you listed and ask yourself this one question: How will I feel when …

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Another Obstacle To Allegiance

These individuals actively traded their stocks because they thought they could beat the market, when in fact, that trading actually resulted in poorer performance. But this leads many to believe that with breathing, bigger is better. A follow-up experiment showed that mixed-gender markets fall somewhere in between. Shame is necessary …

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Giving Up Bargaining For Lent

In the woods, he wrote, I feel that nothing can befall me in life,--no disgrace, no calamity, (leaving me my eyes,) which nature cannot repair. But if I wanted to become Lucian Luper, I needed to take these risks. It is becoming dry and brittle and when he decides …

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Another Obstacle To Fervor

It is strictly an internal, mental, personal step that may have no perceivable effects on other people for quite awhile, leaving plenty of time for everyone - yourself included - to get used to the new way. Next time someone asks you to do something for them, please don't rush to agree …

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Coping With Acceptance

I knew that my techniques and methods had the power to change people's lives, and I wanted journalists and magazines to write about me and my methods so I could reach more people and get an agent to sell my articles. There is a fascinating and wonderful 18th century manuscript …

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Repair Your Resistance

If it doesn't go well, it might be best to just drop it and not mention it for a while. Traditions of the Impersonal Divine, on the other hand, see our deepest identity as spirit (atman or Buddha-nature) that is one with the infinite, impersonal consciousness. And it's the best …

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